Well, our 11 yr old son (adopted from Detroit) went crazy and he became assaultive

combative, destructive, molested 3 of our smaller children, etc. We had him sent to a mental hospital for 7 weeks then 4 months at a residential program….home just over a month and then he assaulted us again and we found out about the molestation’s. Cue lots of court costs even though WE are the victims of our sons abuse and being accused of just trying to get rid of him….um. yeah. okay there.

Plus, another China kiddo had surgery. (4 total in 4 yrs home). Cue medical bills.

So, yeah, we have to pay a family member to care for our delinquent child. Its hitting us hard.